If you’re a single American man aged 50 to 64, looking for love again, let me tell you the shocking truth: you’re probably looking in all the wrong places!
Your best odds are not necessarily in the most crowded cities in the US. And no, I won’t tell you to move abroad to meet a woman half your age in a poor Southeast Asian country. No, you can actually find true love and an amazing woman here in the USA, although SEA ladies remain a valid option, like Vietnamese girls (read what the difference is between dating Vietnamese ladies and US women here).
Where? Well, it’s the small cities – those friendly, hidden-gem communities under 100,000 people – where the numbers (and the atmosphere) are on your side.
Why? Small cities offer welcoming communities, classic American charm, and, most importantly, thousands more single women than men in your age group. That means less competition, more genuine connections, and a better chance of meeting pretty women who appreciate good conversation and shared experiences.
To make things as easy as possible for you, I took a look at Jonathan Soma’s interactive singles map and picked the top 20 American small cities where single senior men have a real edge in the dating game. These will offer you a much-needed chance for a fresh start and maybe your next big love.
North Port, Florida
Looking for sunshine and great odds? North Port, Florida, is a small city that packs a big punch for single senior men, with more than 6,500 extra single women calling it home!
With warm weather, friendly neighborhoods, and plenty of pretty women who love the easygoing lifestyle, North Port might be your ticket to a new beginning.
Gadsden, Alabama
Known as the “City of Champions,” Gadsden, Alabama, will make you a champion of love with romantic wineries, scenic nature trails, and a classic twin drive-in theater to set the scene. Plus, 645 extra single women are waiting for a great guy like you.
Corvallis, Oregon
Corvallis, Oregon isn’t just for college students. This city is a fantastic spot for mature men seeking a mature partner. With 657 more single women, you might meet your match where you least expect it.
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Elmira, New York
Located in southwest New York state, Elmira could help you find the love you’ve always dreamed of (single women outnumber single men by 703). This quaint city is filled with pretty women and classic charm, perfect for making memories that last.
Lewiston, Maine
In Lewiston, Maine, “the sky’s the limit” – and so are your dating options. This All-American city is loaded with cool things to do, from recreation to festivals and museums. And with 716 extra single women, you’re sure to find some pretty women eager to show you around.
Elizabethtown, Kentucky
Elizabethtown may already be known as a top pick for single millennial women, but it’s also a great place for single senior men. The numbers don’t lie: there’s an excess of 787 single women, many of them pretty and looking for someone who appreciates Southern charm.
Palm Coast, Florida
Who wouldn’t want to live – and fall in love – in beautiful Florida, especially Palm Coast?! As the most populous city in Flagler County, you’re sure to find someone who is just right for you. And you have options, with around 796 single women who are also waiting to meet a great guy. Sunshine, palm trees, and pretty women: what’s not to love?
Danville, Virginia
It was a close race with Palm Coast, but Danville wins out with 797 more single women than men. Known as “River City” and “The City of Churches,” Danville is at the heart of the South, and you just might win the heart of one of the many pretty women calling it home.
Ithaca, New York
Coming in at #14 is Ithaca, New York, which also made our list for single millennial women. This city is just perfect for everyone, and with 996 more single women, you have plenty of options to find someone to share the view (and maybe a coffee) with.
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Lawrence, Kansas
Another college town, Lawrence makes our list for its youthful energy and fun atmosphere. The University of Kansas sets the vibe, but with single women outnumbering single men by 1,029, it’s also home to plenty of ladies looking to write their next chapter in life.
Mount Vernon, Washington
Mount Vernon shows up on multiple “best cities for singles” lists, and with 1,061 more single women than men, it’s easy to see why. You’ll find lush scenery, great coffee, and plenty of pretty women ready to explore the Pacific Northwest with you.
Lawton, Oklahoma
Yes, Lawton is a favorite for both single millennial women and single senior men. Single fellas, take note: single women surpass you by 1,088! The numbers are great and in your favor!
Jonesboro, Arkansas
Whether you call it JoBro, the Borough, J-Town, or J-Boogie, Jonesboro won’t disappoint. With cool date spots for nature lovers and foodies alike, plus 1,206 more single women than men, you’ll meet more than a few women looking for something special.
San Luis Obispo, California
San Luis Obispo, or “SLO” as the locals call it, proves that California cool isn’t just for the young.
With about 1,000 more single women than men, this laid-back city is packed with scenic charm, wineries, and pretty women looking for someone to share sunsets (and maybe a glass of local wine) with. The relaxed pace of SLO is perfect for starting something new at your own speed.
Burlington, North Carolina
If you’re looking for Southern hospitality with a serious advantage, Burlington is the place. With over 1,700 more single women than men, you’re sure to find plenty of pretty women eager for company, no matter if you’re strolling the historic downtown, checking out local festivals, or enjoying classic Carolina barbecue.
Champaign, Illinois
Champaign is a prime spot for single senior men who like their odds (and their evenings) a little brighter. With about 1,200 more single women than single men, this lively city offers a blend of culture, cozy cafes, and plenty of pretty women ready to chat over coffee or a show at the local theater.
Deltona, Florida
Don’t overlook Deltona when searching for romance in the Sunshine State. With more than 4,200 extra single women, this laid-back city offers easygoing Florida living and a real chance at love.
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
Sun, sand, and singles – Myrtle Beach isn’t just for vacations anymore. With more than 3,600 extra single women calling this fun coastal city home, your biggest challenge might be deciding which one to ask to join you for a walk on the beach, live music, or a seafood dinner with ocean views.
Youngstown, Ohio
Think all the great odds are out west or in the South? Think again! Youngstown, Ohio, tips the scales with a jaw-dropping 4,300+ more single women than men. From cultural attractions to green parks, it’s a city where your chances are as big as your dreams – and the pool of pretty, single women is even bigger.
Sherman, Texas
Sherman, Texas is a classic town with a broad horizon, and that includes its dating horizon. Take in a concert, try a new restaurant, or get a romantic massage.
With 1,377 extra single women, you’re sure to meet a pretty woman (or two) who’ll appreciate your adventurous spirit.
At a glance
Let’s take a look at all the cities recommended above in a table format, so you can easily spot your favorite(s):
| City | Extra Single Women | What Makes It Special |
|---|---|---|
| North Port, FL | 6,500+ | Warm weather, friendly neighborhoods |
| Gadsden, AL | 645 | Romantic wineries & drive-in movies |
| Corvallis, OR | 657 | Bike-friendly, lively college town |
| Elmira, NY | 703 | Quaint, historic, upstate charm |
| Lewiston, ME | 716 | Museums, festivals, all-American city |
| Elizabethtown, KY | 787 | Southern warmth, historic sites |
| Palm Coast, FL | 796 | Beaches, sunshine, laid-back vibe |
| Danville, VA | 797 | River City, city of churches |
| Ithaca, NY | 996 | Artsy, scenic, college-town energy |
| Lawrence, KS | 1,029 | Young-at-heart college culture |
| Mount Vernon, WA | 1,061 | Pacific Northwest beauty, local markets |
| Lawton, OK | 1,088 | Great outdoors, friendly faces |
| Jonesboro, AR | 1,206 | Nature & food lovers’ paradise |
| San Luis Obispo, CA | ~1,000 | Relaxed wine country, coastal weather |
| Burlington, NC | 1,700+ | Southern hospitality, lively downtown |
| Champaign, IL | 1,200 | Vibrant, intellectual, lots of cafes |
| Deltona, FL | 4,200+ | Laid-back Florida lifestyle, easygoing vibe |
| Myrtle Beach, SC | 3,600+ | Beaches, boardwalks, lively nightlife |
| Youngstown, OH | 4,300+ | Affordable, parks, classic Midwestern feel |
| Sherman, TX | 1,377 | Classic town with wide horizons |
Wrapping up
These 20 small American cities are the place where you can really start over and find someone close, as there are more single women than you’ll find anywhere else.
If you found this guide helpful, share it with a friend or on social media – after all, you never know who’s looking for a new beginning.
(Source: Jonathan Soma’s Interactive Singles map. City stats and populations may shift over time, but the charm of these places never goes out of style.)